What
is a Restraining Order?
A
restraining order is a court order that protects you
from physical or emotional abuse as well as from being
stalked or harassed.
How
can I obtain a Restraining Order?
You can go to court and fill out the necessary paperwork.
You would then have the abuser served with the paperwork
by the Sheriff’s office or through an uninvolved
third party. Your wisest choice is to contact a skilled
and knowledgeable attorney who has experience with restraining
orders and consult with him.
What
happens if the abuser violates the Restraining Order?
A violation of the restraining order is
a criminal offense. The abuser could be subjected to
criminal proceedings—specifically a misdemeanor
contempt of court. The violation could result in his/her
arrest as well as jail time (up to a maximum of 1 year
in the county jail).
Can
I obtain a restraining order if I am being stalked over
the Internet?
Yes! Internet harassment or cyber-stalking
is the new wave of stalking and harassment. An able
and experienced attorney in these matters may be able
to obtain the identity of your internet stalker and
eventually have him served and brought before a judge.
What
happens after I serve my abuser with the restraining
order?
The initial order I serve my abuser is
called a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO). Once the
person is served there will be a court hearing where
the judge will decide if it is necessary to issue a
permanent restraining order under the circumstances.
If the judge believes there has been abuse, stalking,
or harassment then the judge will likely issue a permanent
restraining order for 1 to 5 years.
What happens at the court hearing?
Both parties are ordered to appear (Petitioner
and Respondent). Each of the parties should bring a
copy of their order and any evidence or witnesses to
court with them. The parties are allowed to bring an
attorney if they want. The Petitioner (person serving
the order) is asked to present her evidence of stalking,
harassment or abuse. The Respondent (the accused or
the person responding to the order) is asked to respond
to the allegations. The hearing could be conducted in
an informal manner or much like a formal trial. That
would depend on the judge. After all the relevant issues
have been heard on both sides the judge will decide
if a permanent restraining order should be issued.
What if the Restraining Order has been issued to me?
If after a hearing a judge issued a restraining
order against you then
you must stay away from the person who obtained the
restraining
order against you. Violation of that order could result
in criminal proceedings brought against you. You also
have a right to appeal the judge’s decision. Contact
an experienced restraining order attorney to thoroughly
discuss your options at this time.